Cannot remember what is that house for...
Went to several locations but there are only two places that becomes the main spot for the day - and the second one is the Lokawi Wildlife Park.
Merry Christmas and Awal Muharam to y'all, as well as Happy New Year 2009at here first.
I get this from my friend's e-mail again, and I find out this is an interesting item for me to post it up. Whoever is the writer of this essay, please contact me so that I can put a credit from it.
Thanks to my friend - Y_Wei to forward me this essay. If it is possible, I will try to translate this to English...
父母永遠只有一個
媳婦說:
「煮淡一點妳就嫌沒有味道,現在煮鹹一點妳卻說咽不下,
妳究竟怎麼樣?」
母親一見兒子回來,二話不說便把飯菜往咀裡送。
她怒瞪他一眼。
他試了一口,馬上吐出來,
兒子說:「我不是說過了嗎,媽有病不能吃太鹹!」
「那好!媽是你的,以後由你來煮!」
媳婦怒氣沖沖地回房。
兒子無奈地輕嘆一聲,然後對母親說:
「媽,別吃了,我去煮個麵給妳。」
「仔,你是不是有話想跟媽說,是就說好了,別憋在心裡!
「媽,公司下個月升我職,我會很忙,至於老婆,她說很想出來工作,所以 ....」
母親馬上意識到兒子的意思:
「仔,不要送媽去老人院。」
聲音似乎在哀求。
兒子沉默片刻,他是在尋找更好的理由。
「媽,其實老人院並沒有甚麼不好,妳知道老婆一但工作,一定沒有時間好好服侍妳。老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顧,不是比在家裡好得多嗎?」
「可是,阿財叔他.....」
洗了澡,草草吃了一碗速食麵,兒子便到書房去。
他茫然地佇立於窗前,有些猶豫不決。
母親年輕便守寡,含辛茹苦將他撫養成人,供他出國讀書。
但她從不用年輕時的犧牲當作要脅他孝順的籌碼,
反而是妻子以婚姻要脅他!
真的要讓母親住老人院嗎?
仔問自己,他有些不忍。
「可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆,難道是你媽嗎?」
阿財叔的兒子總是這樣提醒他
「你媽都這麼老了,好命的話可以活多幾年,為何不趁這幾年好好孝順她呢?樹欲靜而風不息,子欲養而親不在啊!」
親戚總是這樣勸他。
兒子不敢再想下去,深怕自己真的會改變初衷。
夕晚,太陽收斂起灼熱的金光,躲在山後憩息。
一間建在郊外山崗的一座貴族老人院。
是的,錢用得越多,兒子才心安理得。
當兒子領著母親步入大廳時,
嶄新的電視機,42吋的螢幕正播放著一部喜劇,
但觀眾一點笑聲也沒有。
幾個衣著一樣,髮型一樣的老嫗歪歪斜斜地坐在發沙上,
神情呆滯而有一個老人在自言自語,
有個正緩緩彎下腰,想去撿掉在地上的一塊餅乾吃。
兒子知道母親喜歡光亮,
所以為她選了一間陽光充足的房間。
從窗口望出去,樹蔭下,一片芳草如茵。
幾名護士推著坐在輪椅的老者在夕陽下散步,
四周悄然寂靜得令人心酸。
縱是夕陽無限好,畢竟已到了黃昏,他心中低低嘆息。
「媽,我........我要走了!」
母親只能點頭。
他走時,母親頻頻揮手,
她張著沒有牙的嘴,
蒼白乾燥的咀唇在囁嚅著,一副欲語還休的樣子。
兒子這才注意到母親銀灰色的頭髮,
深陷的眼窩以及打著細紋臉。
母親,真的老了!
他霍然記起一則兒時舊事。
那年他才6歲,母親有事回鄉,不便攜他同行,
於是把他寄住在阿財叔家幾天。
母親臨走時,
他驚恐地抱著母親的腿傷心大聲號哭道:
「媽媽不要丟下我!媽媽不要走!」
最後母親沒有丟下他。
他連忙離開房間,順手把門關上,不敢回頭,
深恐那記憶像鬼魅似地追纏而來。
他回到家,
妻子與岳母正瘋狂的把母親房裡的一切扔個不亦樂乎。
身高3呎的獎杯──
那是他小學作文比賽「我的母親」第1名的勝利品!
華英字典──
那是母親整個月省吃省用所買給他的第一份生日禮物!
還有母親臨睡前要擦的風濕油,
沒有為她擦,帶去老人院又有甚麼意義呢?
「夠了,別再扔了!」
兒子怒吼道。
「這麼多垃圾,不把它扔掉,怎麼放得下我的東西。」
岳母沒好氣地說。
「就是嘛!你趕快把你媽那張爛床給抬出去,我明天要為我媽添張新的!」
一堆童年的照片展現在兒子眼前,
那是母親帶他到動物園和遊樂園拍的照片。
「它們是我媽的財產,一樣也不能丟!」
「你這算甚態度?對我媽這麼大聲,我要你向我媽道歉!」
「我娶妳就要愛妳的母親,為甚麼妳嫁給我就不能愛我的母親?」
雨後的黑夜分外冷寂,街道蕭瑟,行人車輛格外稀少。
一輛寶馬在路上飛馳,頻頻闖紅燈,陷黃格,
呼一聲又飛馳而過。
那輛轎車一路奔往山崗上的那間老人院,
停車直奔上樓,推開母親臥房的門。
他幽靈似地站著,母親正撫摸著風濕痛的雙腿低泣。
她見到兒子手中正拿著那瓶風濕油,
顯然感到安慰的說:
「媽忘了帶,幸好你拿來!」
他走到母親身邊,跪了下來。
「很晚了,媽自己擦可以了,你明天還要上班,回去吧!」
他囁嚅片刻,終於忍不住啜泣道:
「媽,對不起,請原諒我!我們回家去吧 !」
~~後語~~
隨著自己愈長大,
看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴,
頭髮從烏絲變白髮,動作從迅捷變緩慢,多心疼!
父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們,
像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己,照亮孩子!
而我呢?
有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母,
或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時,
才會想起他們……
其實父母親要的真的不多,
只是一句隨意的問候:爸、媽,你們今天好嗎?」
隨意買的宵夜,煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐,
睡前幫他們蓋蓋被子,
天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……
都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。
有時,我常在想:我希望我的子女以後如何對我。
那現在,我有沒有如此對待我的父母?
我相信,人是環環相扣的;
現在,你如何對待你的父母;
以後,你的子女就如何待你。
朋友,人世間最難報的就是父母恩,
願我們都能:以反哺之心奉敬父母,以恩之心孝順父母!
~共勉之~
生命不要求我們成為最好的,只要求我們作最大的努力!
老人安養院牆上發現的一篇文章
孩子!當你還很小的時候,
我花了很多時間,教你慢慢用湯匙、用筷子吃東西。
教你繫鞋帶、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳頭髮、擰鼻涕。
這些和你在一起的點點滴滴,是多麼的令我懷念不已。
所以,當我想不起來,接不上話時,
請給我一點時間,等我一下,
讓我再想一想……極可能最後連要說什麼,我也一併忘記。
孩子!
你忘記我們練習了好幾百回,
才學會的第一首娃娃歌嗎?
是否還記得每天總要我絞盡腦汁,
去回答不知道你從哪裡冒出來的嗎?
所以,當我重覆又重覆說著老掉牙的故事,
哼著我孩提時代的兒歌時,體諒我。
讓我繼續沉醉在這些回憶中吧!
切望你,也能陪著我閒話家常吧!
孩子,現在我常忘了扣扣子、繫鞋帶。
吃飯時,會弄髒衣服,梳頭髮時手還會不停的抖,
不要催促我,要對我多一點耐心和溫柔,
只要有你在一起,就會有很多的溫暖湧上心頭。
孩子!如今,我的腳站也站不穩,走也走不動。
所以,請你緊緊的握著我的手,陪著我,慢慢的。
就像當年一樣,我帶著你一步一步地走。
若為人子女也不懂得如何體諒他們,那他們便只能於痛苦中渡過餘生,黑暗中逝去....
請把此文章轉發給您的朋友,
讓他們知道家人才是最重要的。
愛情可以重新再找尋,但父母一生卻只有一個,
要珍惜、珍重。
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短訊提及的內容猶如日本電影“死亡來電”的橋段,受害者皆在接獲不明來電后,發生怪異事件,無故死亡。
另一方面,關丹市也流傳上述短訊,市民甚至電報館查詢。
在士滿慕工業區任書記的張小姐(29歲),今午接獲友人轉發的華文版手機短訊。
張小姐說,因為對短訊內容產生懷疑,但又擔心真有其事,所以,在眾人商量后,決定直接聯絡報館查詢。
引用:
短訊內容
“如有 一通陌生電話撥打給您,是很長的電話號碼(例:+6285731520946)電話顏色是紅色的話,千萬不要接。因為這是降頭,在印尼有一群正在學黑術的 人用電話來下降。如您接聽這通電話后,口會吐白泡立即死亡。現在在印尼已有9人接了此類型的電話后而喪命。昨晚在蒲種有兩人也喪命。這是真人真事傳給您所 有認識的人。”
目前,該短訊相信已廣泛流傳,許多民眾卻抱持寧可信其有的態度,不斷將短訊轉發給身邊的親友,引起社會關注。
由于坊間也曾流傳過類似短訊,惟皆無法獲得證實,此短訊內容的真偽仍待驗證。
”(吉隆坡)警方週五(5月16日)警告手機使用者別散播有關“印尼人施降,手機用戶勿接聽來電顯示出現紅色號碼的電話,以免離奇死亡”的荒繆短訊。
這則短訊近來在國內廣泛流傳且引起恐慌。
砂州代警察總監拿督阿都拉曼也勸請公眾,不要理會這種奪命短訊,因為一則短訊怎麼可能會取走性命。
他也促請民眾別以訛傳訛,更應該停止轉發類似無聊短訊之舉。他補充,凡是散播具有恐嚇性內容的簡訊,都是一項嚴重的罪刑。從該簡訊的內容來看,確是一項犯罪行為,不排除是有心人士蓄意制造的恐慌及謠言。
民都魯警方發言人表示,警方已向全砂各醫院調查瞭解,證實無人無故身亡或離奇暴斃送院。
且近幾個月來,砂州各地的國民登記局及殯儀館,亦沒有接獲無故暴斃、離奇死亡的案例。
該名發言人也表示,凡再轉發、散播這不實的簡訊及消息者,將被警方在煽動法令下扣留調查。
指印尼巫術集團進行實驗
據瞭解“紅色奪命來電∕短訊”的謠言有數個不同的版本,共有國文及華文兩種,惟內容大同小異,皆是提醒若見來電顯示字幕呈紅色,且有一連串號碼如+6285XXXXX的來電。並稱這是一群來自印尼的巫術集團正在通過電話實驗他們的巫術,凡接聽者會離奇死亡。
一些民眾雖然覺得通過電話下降頭是很荒謬的事情,但卻抱著寧可信其有,不怕一萬,只怕萬一的心理一轉十,十轉百。
"Tawau: Police advised the public to ignore a Short Messaging Service (SMS) text involving a so-called group of black magic followers from Indonesia trying their witchcraft through the telecommunication network.
The text told people not to pick up their mobile phone if the colour of the caller number flashing on the phone was in red, claiming the black magic followers were trying their ilmu (knowledge) through phone.
It also claimed that if people answered the call they would die.
District Police Chief, ACP Jaafar Mohd Yusof told the public not to believe the SMS, saying it is irrational and illogical.
"We do not know the purpose behind this but the public should not be influenced and be worried by it," he said, adding his friends from Kuala Lumpur had also forwarded him the same SMS.
It was learnt the SMS was spread since Wednesday night."
U.N. Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon on Monday sharply criticized Myanmar's military junta, whose leader Senior Gen. Than Shwe has refused to take his calls, expressing "deep concern and immense frustration'' at "the unacceptably slow response to this grave humanitarian crisis.'' On Tuesday, Elisabeth Byrs, spokeswoman for the U.N. Office for Humanitarian Affairs, followed up saying: "We fear a second catastrophe unless we're able to put in place quickly a maximum of aid and a major logistical effort comparable with the response to the tsunami.''
U.N. spokeswoman Michele Montas was asked Tuesday whether the secretary-general was concerned that China has not yet said what kind of help the U.N. could provide to the earthquake victims.
"I don't think he is that concerned because so far, he doesn't have any reports that aid is not reaching the survivors and that the survivors are not being taken care of,'' she replied. "I think his concern was about the situation in Myanmar, because of the fact that people were not receiving aid.''
'The situation in Burma is very, very different,'' Sawers said, using the former name for Myanmar. "There, the scale of the disaster is a whole lot greater. The risk of water-borne disease, lack of clean sanitation -- all these problems are going to escalate over the days to come.''He warned that "the death toll can double or more because of the lack of basic health care facilities and clean water and food and shelter -- and with heavy rains expected in southern Burma in the days ahead that can only make things even worse.''
The secretary-general, Sawers, and U.S. Ambassador Zalmay Khalilzad all expressed concern at reports that desperately needed food and aid from the U.N. and other organizations that has arrived in Myanmar is being diverted to non-cyclone victims, though no one had independent evidence.
Sawers said the reports underline the need for the Myanmar government to accept that it does not have the capacity to distribute aid to 1.5 million people.
"This is not a slight on Burma,'' he said. "No country of that size could cope with delivering aid to 1.5 million people.''
Besides, Sawers said, "the Burmese army are not a humanitarian organization'' and are not geared up for humanitarian operations, so the government should leave distribution to experts from the U.N. and international organizations who have the skills to get help in before it's too late.'
andAdmittedly, Myanmar has always been a political hotspot. From the EU to Asean, from NGOs to individuals, the world has tried all sorts of things to move the regime on political reforms which the ruling junta has been steadfast in rejecting.
But at times like this, let us pray that politics will be put aside. May good sense prevail, and may the junta acknowledge and accept all aid as sincere efforts from the globalised world.
All the money and supplies already collected will be of no use unless they find their way to where they are needed most. And every second counts.
Over the weekend, I heard a Malaysian official with the Food for the Hungry organisation (on transit in Kuala Lumpur because the visa had not been approved) emotionally appealing for a softening of the hearts of the generals so that they can move in to help.
“Drinking water is now the big issue. Unless the survivors can get ample supply, they will become victims of water-borne diseases like cholera,” he said.
Unless help is given fast, the second wave of deaths could potentially be larger than the first.
Compared to Myanmar, the stories and the images out of China show a nation fully galvanized to help in the search for survivors. The ordinary people further away are donating blood in mobile clinics even as troops and medical personnel rush to the scene. The world, international aid agencies in particular, must be relieved that this is not Myanmar all over again.
China's handling of its disaster contrasts sharply with the way Myanmar's junta has responded to its cyclone crisis. The generals have attached stringent conditions to offers of aid and they are scrambling to draw a veil of secrecy over the disaster, which is estimated to have killed tens of thousands of people.
Gosh, how horrible. What a shame for the Myanmar generals. Showing out their ego by turning down the aid and compassion of the people in the midst of the tragedy in Myanmar.
And sums up from that, we should be lucky that we live in Malaysia and we have a caring heart. Why don't donate to these victims, either local or international as you can, as there are several services that accepting donations in various ways (in SMS, calling, cash, cheque, items)? Even a cent is also a help to them, even it is not a lot, but still there is the 'least' and the caring heart.
Anyway, just hopefully that this problems and disasters will be overcome as soon as possible. See out who, or what is the real disaster at these cases though.(Again, no point of insulting on the governments as they are really found on the newspapers and online)
Source of the News:
Kwang Hwa Ri Bao - www.kongwah.com.my
The Stars Online - www.thestar.com.my
Sin Chew Jit Poh - www.sinchew.com.my